So, raise your hand if you're wearing a veil at your wedding. Are you doing a garter toss? What about shoving cake in each other's faces? If you answered yes to any of these, can you tell me why?
This week for Wedding Wednesday, I thought it would be fun if we looked at some of the most popular wedding traditions and talk about where they came from and why we continue them today. What do you think?
Something Blue {image via}
We all know the old rhyme...
Something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue (and a sixpence in her shoe).
Those of us in the United States tend to leave out that last one, but we still hold onto the rest! Apparently, each of these items is meant to bring the bride luck in one way or another. We can assume what the first three are for (old, new, and borrowed), but what about blue? What's so special about blue? Historically speaking, blue has always been an important color in weddings, and represented purity long before white did. It was also a popular color for wedding dresses, before the white dress was made popular by Queen Victoria.
The Cake {image via}
These days, seeing a cake at a wedding is almost a guarantee. Even if they don't have a traditional tiered cake, and go for something more eclectic like pie or cupcakes, they'll often have a small cake just for cutting.
The contemporary wedding cake has come from quite a few traditions in the past. For example, bread was broken over the head of the bride in ancient Rome to bring good fortune to the couple. Cake also used to be thrown at the bride, instead of eaten, since wheat has always been considered a symbol of fertility and fruitfulness. And in Medieval England, the bride and groom would have to kiss over a tall cake. Doing so ensured prosperity and a long life together.
The Bouquet {image via}
Bouquets used to be made from herbs and spices, so that evil spirits would be sent away while the bride walked down the aisle. Flowers eventually replaced the herbs (though I'd argue they're making a comeback!), with different types of flowers symbolizing different things. For example, lilies mean purity and ivy means fidelity.
The Best Man {image via}
It's no secret that brides didn't always marry their grooms willingly. It was common in many cultures for a groom to kidnap the bride and force her into a marriage. It's suggested that the tradition of a best man came from Germany, where a groom would need to go find a bride from a neighboring village and bring her home to marry him. This often required more than one person, thus the best man.
The Veil {image via}
Veils are somewhat controversial these days because of their traditional meaning, which is that of virginity and modesty. Obviously, a woman isn't always expected to be a virgin on her wedding day, but veils are still the most common accessory for a bride. In some cultures, brides were covered by a veil so that the groom didn't see them at all until they were husband and wife.
The Garter {image via}
I thought that I knew what the garter symbolized at a wedding...you know...that. I was right to an extent, but I still found the rest of the story kind of interesting.
According to Bride and Groom...
The garter from the bride comes from the ancient custom of witnesses at the marriage bed (to make sure the couple consummated the marriage); the witnesses would bring it forth as a sign of the witnessing. It became such a violation of privacy that eventually the bride would have the groom throw it to prove consummation. This is one of the oldest customs surviving wedding rituals.
Are there any traditions or customs that you find interesting? Of these, what are you incorporating into your wedding?
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